A Theology of Gratitude: How to find Health & Happiness?

G.K.Chesterton saying "I felt grateful, though I hardly knew to whom," that is a reference to his original state of atheism. He said he became Christian, not by reading the bible, but by reading atheists because in their writings he recognized God's silhouette. It reminds of the writer Julian Barnes who says, “I don’t believe in God, but I miss him.” Barnes speaks to the universal longing for a source goodness, love and beauty outside of self. Chesterton’s journey to Christianity started with his desire to find a mooring for his wandering gratitude.

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Love vs. Ideology: The Hypocrisy of Pyotr in Dostoevsky's Novel

what is love? Is love an idea or is it action? These are some questions Dostoevsky explores in The Brothers Karamazov.

For Dostoevsky, there was something that really concerned him. It was the attitude of the Russian elite of his day. The Russian elites of his day were very interested in the revolutionary ideologies coming out of Europe. Whether it was a form of enlightenment or Marxism. Dostoevsky's concern was that as the elite were interested in these revolutionary ideals and ideologies coming from Europe, they were neglecting their basic religious values and he felt that that would affect their commitment to love; it would affect their capacity for love.

A great example of that in the novel is the character called Pyotr. Pyotr appreciates the European ideologies and values. He takes pride in aligning himself with the European ideologies and intellectuals. Dostoevsky mentions how Pyotr appreciates Proudhon who is a European intellectual who was friends with Karl Marx. And was also an anarchist who wanted to tear down the system and rebuild it again. Proudhon's famous quote is "Property is theft." To own property he said it's stealing from nature, so to speak.

So here's the interesting part! Pyotr appreciates and wants to be seen as someone who aligns with Proudhon. At the same time Pyotr owns a lot of property. He doesn't just own property. He owns a thousand serfs that work in estates. Serfs are peasants who almost are like slave labor in the Russian society of that time. And what we see here is that Pyotr becomes a great example of what Dostoevsky considers ideological hypocrisy. Pyotr aligns with the European intellectual who says, "Property is theft!". He wants to be seen as someone who is a part of this revolutionary ethos at the same time he owns people as property.

So Dostoevsky was concerned that this kind of ideological hypocrisy makes people self-righteous. It reduces their capacity to love. We see that in the novel where Pyotr despises Fyodor as someone who is uneducated, who is neglectful of his son Dimitri. Pyotr is Dimitri's uncle. He takes guardianship of Dimitri away from Fyodor. After a while, he loses interest in being a guardian to Dimitri. So he leaves him and goes to Europe to be a part of the revolutionary movement.

So why would he do that? Why would he want to be seen as this very good person who's fighting in a big revolutionary cause, while at the same time, abandoning a young man to whom he made a promise? To understand this, we need to understand the inner psychology of how revolutionary movements work.

A great example of that is something we see in Lenin who spearheaded the communist revolution in Russia in 1917. And in 1919, just two years after the bloody revolution, he wrote to this to one of his comrades, Maxim Gorky. He said, "We do not have time to pay attention to individual complaints. Our job is to overthrow the old regime and build a new society." What do we see here? We see here a lack of concern for the individual while being concerned about the masses. So the individual can fall through the cracks and that's okay. This is what Pyotr is doing here. He is concerned about these big revolutionary movements and ideas in Europe while he abandons the young man Dimitri who he took under his guardianship.

Dimitri needed a good shepherd, so to speak. And what we see in Jesus is the opposite of what Lenin talks about. What we see in Jesus is care for the individual in Luke 15, Jesus talks about how a good shepherd is somebody who would leave the 99 sheep and go after the one lost sheep. And when the one lost sheep is found anxious and desperate, the good shepherd would pick up the sheep, put it on the shoulders and bring the sheep back home.

Dimitri was neglected by his father. What he needed was a good shepherd. But what ended up happening is Pyotr adopted him and then abandoned him, creating in Dimitri a deep scar of how he viewed himself as being an unwanted person. This psychological scar would eventually turn into a form of violence later on in the novel which becomes central to the rest of the story.

So Pyotr in his ideological hypocrisy became self-righteous and is incapable of love. Dostoevsky loves putting opposite characters together on the opposite side to Pyotr is another character called Polyonov. Polyonov is someone who takes guardianship of the other two sons that Fyodor had, Alexi and Ivan, and is different from Pyotr.

Polyonov pays attention to the individual. He pays attention to that one lost sheep in a Christ-like way. In fact, Ivan says Polyonov had this passion for good deeds and Dostoevsky comments that Polyonov recognized the uniqueness of Alexi. Who eventually becomes the protagonist of the novel and it was Polyonov's attention to Aleksey and in helping him develop into a young man is what helps Alexa develop a deeper moral conscience. And makes them into a compassionate young man.

What we see in Dostoevsky here is as he places, these two contrasting figures, Pyotr, and Polyonov to give us a sense of what love really is. Love is not about having the right ideas. Love is about actions. Love is not about going on these ideological battles, so to speak, that we often see in social media, where people fight with each other about what is the right idea to help billions of people. And in fighting with each other about all these ideas about helping billions of people, they fail to act, to love the individuals who are in front of them.

And this is what Dostoevsky was trying to critique in terms of the ideological hypocrisy among the elite, which took away their capacity for love. So if we want to be people who are loving, What Dostoevsky is calling us in some sense is to love the individual in a Christ-like self-giving way. And if each of us would do that, then billions of people will all feel cared and loved.

Mr. Beast a Modern Tragic Hero

In the age of YouTube celebritydom, the pursuit of fame can tempt even the best of us. My hope is that Mr. Beast takes some time to reflect on his own choices and his life, engaging in inner examination. Instead of doubling down on his fatal flaws, I hope he can emerge as a redeemed hero, rather than becoming a tragic hero derailed by his flaws.

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Brother Karamazov: Exploring Romanticism In Adelaida's Choice - Ideology vs Relational Rootedness

Adelaida choice to marry Fyodor is inauthentic because it is ideological and not relational. Ideological love sees the other as an idea. Adelaida married Fyodor because he represented the idea of rebellion against her parents. On the other hand, relational choices are about love for the person for who they are and not what sentiment they represent.

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Holdovers On Metabolizing Pain

The movie starts with Paul as an angry man, drowning his pain in alcohol and vitriol. The movie resists finding romance as an easy salve to his pain. Instead it attempts to help people find resolution through honesty, acceptance and facing the truth of their past. The last scene of the movie is Paul taking a swing of liquor and spitting it out, setting Paul on a new journey.

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Why is sci-fi fundamental to Elon's worldview and work?

What is peculiar to Elon is he has civilizational vision for using science and technology - to save humanity. This is why the goal of SpaceX is to make human beings a spacefaring civilization. In the Foundation series the psycho-history genius Hari Sheldon helps civilization navigate through a major crisis by creating a remnant far out in space.

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The Crown SE 06: Father Wound of Diana and Dodi

One of the most powerful scenes in this Season is one the father and son have a heart to heart conversation. In order to not spoil the scene I do not want to say too much, but only this. In that scene Dodi tells his dad that the reason why he is so controlling is that he is seeking the affirmation of the West, suggesting that his own controlling nature comes from deep in securities.

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Why is Luna Lovegood a Great Character in Harry Potter?

So what helps luna Lovegood to be that person that brings comfort to people when they are there, when they are in distress? And how has she developed that ability? A part of this goes back to luna love good's own life history. When she was about nine her mom died accidentally. And she witnessed that death. Anytime somebody witnesses death, in the Harry Potter world, they become people that can see the thestral until then they cannot see the thestral.

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Oppenheimer: American Prometheus: Technology vs Moral Virtue

So who is Prometheus? He is a figure from the Greek mythology. He stole fire from the gods to bring it to human beings. So that's what they're referring to when they say "raided Mount Olympus again", to bring this technology to human beings so that human life would prosper. The scientists that worked along with Oppenheimer brought the technology that fuels the sun nuclear energy to earth, so to speak. Which is why they are called the modern Prometheans.

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Stockton Rush: Hero or Villian OR What may Aristotle say?

There are some that consider Stockton rush as a hero. There are some that say that captain Stockton is a pioneer because he was trying to figure out a way to take multiple people on a tour together to the deeper depths of the ocean. Because the current models do not allow more than two people to go together at the same time. So in that sense, is he an Explorer that is that is trying to push the boundaries and figure out innovative ways of doing things. In that sense, is he a hero?

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Lessons from Succession: Finite and Infinite Games

Logan is always playing the game to win. He says, "I always win." And this mindset of playing the game to win   is something Simon Sinek, calls the finite game. He wrote a book called the infinite game in which he says people often play two types of games.

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Why are Cormac McCarthy's books so bleak yet hopeful? Facing Terminal Decadence!

So what is terminal decadence? If you think about different cultures and civilization? They rise up, they go to a peak, and then they start coming down. And terminal decadence is the stage where they start crumbling and they reach a point where there is no return.

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Succession and the Gospel: Inversion of Patriarch's Power Games

This thing that sat on Kendal's heart since he was nine is the desire to be crowned as the King. Is that because he really wanted to do the job. Or is that because that is the only way he could get his father's approval. Is Logan exploiting Kendall's need for his approval. Logan would repeat similar tactics with his other children too, Shiv and Roman, manipulating their ambition and loyalties sowing the seeds for grand betrayals and escalating rivalry.

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Waking Ned Divine - Breaking the Machine

Lizzy reminded me of the book Fate of Empires. In the book Fate of Empires, Sir John Glubb analyzes how different civilizations follow a common pattern of rise to power, then decline and fall. Civilizations rise to power when people value courage, duty and honor dealings with others. One of the stages in the decline and fall is what he calls the Age of Affluence. In this stage the ethic of honor and duty is replaced by the ethic of wanting to make money and get ahead in life, often at the cost of civic virtue.

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Lessons in Love: Fightclub and Codependency

Every human being is broken in some ways. We all seek to healing. And love can be a powerful healing force at multiple levels - psychological, neurological and sociological. The problem is that when two broken people try to use each other's love to heal their wounds, it can create more brokenness - because two different people may need two different ways of feeling loved by the other, to feel healed. But the other may not be able to provide that particular way of being loved. This can create a lot of resentment in relationships.

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From Woody Allen to Christmas

This is the meaning of Christmas! It means we do not have to resign our unyielding despair like Bertrand Russell suggests or try to escape into a world of comic relief as Woody Allen does, rather we can face the despair in life with the hope that our pain points to a bigger purpose and our desires point to a transcendent beauty and our life will find meaning which will echo through eternity. All because the Logos took on Humanity and transformed what it means to be human.

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Hack Slowness!

Hacking slowness is not about slowing down just to speed up again. Sometimes we think we will slow down on vacation and then come back to the real world to speed up. Hacking slowness is about slowing down for the sake of slowing down. Hacking slowness is about creating the inner capacity to notice more. Chronic speed will reduce our inner capacity to notice. If we are not careful we could break things.

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How to Get UnStuck When we Feel Overwhelmed? Lord of the Rings

When life seems overwhelming and you feel stuck in a state of frustration, to get unstuck, start with empathy follow up with meaningful response by celebrating your agency to choose and you would be following on Frodo’s footsteps, bravely matching to Mordor!

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The Terminal List - On What is Wrong with our Society

To the extend that we don't value our need for deep bonds with the community around us we will become less human, the way the elite managerial class seem in Terminal List. In exchanging the brotherhood for money, the elite managerial class lose their humanity. Their humanity dies before they indeed are terminated.

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