The Moore Bond existed to entertain, the Craig Bond lived to point us to the deeper way of love, the Christlike way of self-giving love which is the proper function of a man who lives a life worth living.
Jane Austen's lesson here is that when one is anguished with one's own personal life choice, instead of following Charolet in her pragmatic rationalism, or Lydia in her emotionalism, we can follow Elizabeth in aligning ourselves to our telos, our true end, for Christians this telos is the resurrected life. This telos is what C.S.Lewis refers to as he says that Christians of the ancient times were people who had a heavenward view of life, but in the transition to modernity we have become too focused on happenings of this earthly life. Given this context, it shouldn't be surprising why the existentialist philosophers of the 20th century, from Albert Camus and Jean Paul Sartre, considered choice a burden than a gift of freedom! Perhaps, it shouldn't be surprising that we modern this-worldly neurotics stymied with limitless choices find Jane Austen's world quaintly attractive!
For people living in culture of compulsive productivity, solitude is so difficult because it is as unproductive as is Sabbath. The way of out of such compulsivity is to treat the practice of solitude as Sabbath. Sabbath rest is where we learn to rest in God's presence. Augustine said, "we are restless until we find our rest in Thee(God)." We come to experience true freedom in resting in the presence of Christ instead of being addicted to our compulsion to productivity. Spiritual practice of silent solitude helps us to learn to trust in the God's provision and rest Christ's love instead of being addicted to our need for productivity.
A mind compulsively intent on self-preservation cannot look at the world from the other person’s point of view. Only when one steps away from ones addiction to self-preservation can one’s mind be freed to see the world from the other person’s point of view. Then one will stop seeing others as “tools” in one’s own project of self-preservation, making way to have empathy for the other.
The Examen prayer is done at the end of each day, as a way of reviewing the day to see how our spirit and desires were moved through the day. It is a way of prayerfully asking a series of questions that help us be attuned to the presence of Christ's spirit and discover our deep desires.
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There’s a detail in Augustine’s Confessions that I keep coming back to. As a teenager, Augustine stole pears from a neighbor’s tree with a group of friends. He had better pears at home. And what did they do with the pears once they had them? They threw them to the pigs.
In the world of Farenheti 451 there is no time for a good long look. Billboards for advertisement are made 200 foot long because cars were rushing past them too quickly to notice. Life is fast, people are entertained and conversations are superficial. What comes below the surface is just more surface.
The new TV series "Penguin" delves into the psychological complexity of Oswald "Oz" Cobblepot, exploring whether he's truly a ruthless Gotham mobster or simply a desperate momma's boy. The plot is gritty but also deeply psychological exploring Oz’s relationship with his mom and how that shapes his drive to succeed.
G.K.Chesterton saying "I felt grateful, though I hardly knew to whom," that is a reference to his original state of atheism. He said he became Christian, not by reading the bible, but by reading atheists because in their writings he recognized God's silhouette. It reminds of the writer Julian Barnes who says, “I don’t believe in God, but I miss him.” Barnes speaks to the universal longing for a source goodness, love and beauty outside of self. Chesterton’s journey to Christianity started with his desire to find a mooring for his wandering gratitude.
Maxim Gorky. He said, "We do not have time to pay attention to individual complaints. Our job is to overthrow the old regime and build a new society." What do we see here? We see here a lack of concern for the individual while being concerned about the masses. So the individual can fall through the cracks and that's okay. This is what Pyotr is doing here. He is concerned about these big revolutionary movements and ideas in Europe while he abandons the young man Dimitri who he took under his guardianship.
In the age of YouTube celebritydom, the pursuit of fame can tempt even the best of us. My hope is that Mr. Beast takes some time to reflect on his own choices and his life, engaging in inner examination. Instead of doubling down on his fatal flaws, I hope he can emerge as a redeemed hero, rather than becoming a tragic hero derailed by his flaws.
Adelaida choice to marry Fyodor is inauthentic because it is ideological and not relational. Ideological love sees the other as an idea. Adelaida married Fyodor because he represented the idea of rebellion against her parents. On the other hand, relational choices are about love for the person for who they are and not what sentiment they represent.
The movie starts with Paul as an angry man, drowning his pain in alcohol and vitriol. The movie resists finding romance as an easy salve to his pain. Instead it attempts to help people find resolution through honesty, acceptance and facing the truth of their past. The last scene of the movie is Paul taking a swing of liquor and spitting it out, setting Paul on a new journey.
What is peculiar to Elon is he has civilizational vision for using science and technology - to save humanity. This is why the goal of SpaceX is to make human beings a spacefaring civilization. In the Foundation series the psycho-history genius Hari Sheldon helps civilization navigate through a major crisis by creating a remnant far out in space.
One of the most powerful scenes in this Season is one the father and son have a heart to heart conversation. In order to not spoil the scene I do not want to say too much, but only this. In that scene Dodi tells his dad that the reason why he is so controlling is that he is seeking the affirmation of the West, suggesting that his own controlling nature comes from deep in securities.
So what helps luna Lovegood to be that person that brings comfort to people when they are there, when they are in distress? And how has she developed that ability? A part of this goes back to luna love good's own life history. When she was about nine her mom died accidentally. And she witnessed that death. Anytime somebody witnesses death, in the Harry Potter world, they become people that can see the thestral until then they cannot see the thestral.
So who is Prometheus? He is a figure from the Greek mythology. He stole fire from the gods to bring it to human beings. So that's what they're referring to when they say "raided Mount Olympus again", to bring this technology to human beings so that human life would prosper. The scientists that worked along with Oppenheimer brought the technology that fuels the sun nuclear energy to earth, so to speak. Which is why they are called the modern Prometheans.
There are some that consider Stockton rush as a hero. There are some that say that captain Stockton is a pioneer because he was trying to figure out a way to take multiple people on a tour together to the deeper depths of the ocean. Because the current models do not allow more than two people to go together at the same time. So in that sense, is he an Explorer that is that is trying to push the boundaries and figure out innovative ways of doing things. In that sense, is he a hero?
Logan is always playing the game to win. He says, "I always win." And this mindset of playing the game to win   is something Simon Sinek, calls the finite game. He wrote a book called the infinite game in which he says people often play two types of games.
So what is terminal decadence? If you think about different cultures and civilization? They rise up, they go to a peak, and then they start coming down. And terminal decadence is the stage where they start crumbling and they reach a point where there is no return.
This thing that sat on Kendal's heart since he was nine is the desire to be crowned as the King. Is that because he really wanted to do the job. Or is that because that is the only way he could get his father's approval. Is Logan exploiting Kendall's need for his approval. Logan would repeat similar tactics with his other children too, Shiv and Roman, manipulating their ambition and loyalties sowing the seeds for grand betrayals and escalating rivalry.
Lizzy reminded me of the book Fate of Empires. In the book Fate of Empires, Sir John Glubb analyzes how different civilizations follow a common pattern of rise to power, then decline and fall. Civilizations rise to power when people value courage, duty and honor dealings with others. One of the stages in the decline and fall is what he calls the Age of Affluence. In this stage the ethic of honor and duty is replaced by the ethic of wanting to make money and get ahead in life, often at the cost of civic virtue.
Every human being is broken in some ways. We all seek to healing. And love can be a powerful healing force at multiple levels - psychological, neurological and sociological. The problem is that when two broken people try to use each other's love to heal their wounds, it can create more brokenness - because two different people may need two different ways of feeling loved by the other, to feel healed. But the other may not be able to provide that particular way of being loved. This can create a lot of resentment in relationships.
This is the meaning of Christmas! It means we do not have to resign our unyielding despair like Bertrand Russell suggests or try to escape into a world of comic relief as Woody Allen does, rather we can face the despair in life with the hope that our pain points to a bigger purpose and our desires point to a transcendent beauty and our life will find meaning which will echo through eternity. All because the Logos took on Humanity and transformed what it means to be human.
What Virgil was for Dante in Divine Comedy, Tolkien was for my in my reading journey. He opened up a new intellectual avenue for me to my heart, I travelled this highway back to literature.
To the extend that we don't value our need for deep bonds with the community around us we will become less human, the way the elite managerial class seem in Terminal List. In exchanging the brotherhood for money, the elite managerial class lose their humanity. Their humanity dies before they indeed are terminated.
The Moore Bond existed to entertain, the Craig Bond lived to point us to the deeper way of love, the Christlike way of self-giving love which is the proper function of a man who lives a life worth living.
A strong sense of why is deeply motivating, giving us the energy to face what we have to do each day with a deep sense of purpose and meaning. Simon Sinek is right in helping us to see why focusing on the why is more important than focusing on the 'what.' But the 'why' in and of itself is amoral, so it can easily be used in narcissistic self-seeking ways. When we make our 'why' to align with the glorifying God, by valuing intimacy with God and obeying God's command to love our neighbors we will be energized to truly create a world of love and peace.
Michale Malice is not wrong to say people should have the motivation to make the world a better place. But the problem is without a comprehensive model for how to make the world a better place, misplaced motivation can easily destroy the world in the name of making the world a better place as we see with Stalin and Walter Duranty. Christian theology points to Jesus being the best model to making the world a better place through self-giving love, in as much as Christians follow the way of Jesus, we will truly be making the world a better place.
The idea of using micro electrodes in the brain to program away faulty thinking reminds me of Aldous Huxley's Brave New World which uses drugs instead of electromagnetism to manage brains creating a crime-less society with unmitigated happiness. The problem of course is that a society which does not have a sense of freewill ends up into becoming a rather boring society. One of the characters, John Savage, finds such a world so meaningless that he tries to find meaning in suffering, lashing himself with a whip, and eventually taking his own life away. Why would a society filled with easy ways for chemically induced happiness be rather boring and meaningless?
Yes, people can change history of they have a singular passion for an idea and are willing to die for it. But for this change to create any kind of last peace in a Christlike way, the means and the ends have to align. Using coercive power may give short term results. But one cannot use coercive powers of destruction to create lasting peace, case in point Nechayev’s Revolution. One can only use self-sacrificial love of the way of Jesus to create lasting peace.
What we see in Mandalorian is an alignment to a creed, and then a commitment to the community. As Christians we too are called to be people who are aligned to the creed the Jesus is Lord, and committed to the community of children of God who live around us.
If we are craving attention, seeking self-aggrandizement, becoming addicted to our spectacles the way Joe Exotic is, then we will self-destruct like Joe Exotic. We will be crushed under the weight of our own spectacle. The way to freedom is to away from the addiction to the self-aggrandizing spectacle is to, one, always perform for the audience of one no matter what. Two, remember that we are the beloved of God no matter what others may think about us or say about us. This is the good news, that we are the beloved of God, in the name of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.
Our ability to endure suffering comes from the power of our identity. From a Christian standpoint our identity as children of God gives us an eternal perspective on suffering, by reminding us that our citizenship is in the eternal world. Our identity in Christ also gives us a new purpose, to love our neighbors. It means our suffering does not define us, our suffering is redeemed by investing in loving, building the kingdom of love and peace.
When we are stuck in obsessions, trying to find our happiness and rest through some attachment of ours, the way to let go of our obsessions is to to trust in God for our rest and happiness. Life is a journey with God. It is a journey filled with wonder towards freedom. It is our trust in God who fuels this journey of wonder towards freedom.
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This is the meaning of Christmas! It means we do not have to resign our unyielding despair like Bertrand Russell suggests or try to escape into a world of comic relief as Woody Allen does, rather we can face the despair in life with the hope that our pain points to a bigger purpose and our desires point to a transcendent beauty and our life will find meaning which will echo through eternity. All because the Logos took on Humanity and transformed what it means to be human.